Marriage is so complex that you can't say you have all the knowledge there in.The one you know is good but not enough to care and love the house because of the many challenges you will be experiencing as the marriage is continuing but as well as when the children are growing.Children is a blessing from God and it's not an instant thing to get yours the moment you have married. Delay and trials are part of the complete packaged.Accept your fate anytime you have your children. That's the best time it's pleases your maker to grant your request. No complaint it's the faith you need to use everyday.

Children are the best behavior of the two parents. The behavior that takes the larger share from their trait that is the dominance not recessive. You have known each other to some extent and the characteristics attributed as a couple which will be showing in your child.As to this saying where did I get this child.His or her behaviour is totally different from us as a parents.No it was form from you. Do you think it came from heaven.What's needed is love and cooperation to do better as a parents.

For your child to be successful in life.You need to monitor, pray and trained them the same way.If the father says the child should be punished the mother should do the same as well.It could be that one of them were not there when the child acted such behaviour.He can relate the issues to the others in absence.Just as he has behaved and the necessary actions can be taken.The decision of these parents should reflect on this saying "That's one way the two become one".

Children picks the bad behaviour first before the good ones.That's what they are seeing everyday being display by their parents. There is a learned behaviour which won't come outside until the child start misbehaving. As a good parents that noticed such an inappropriate behaviour from your kids needs to inform her husband what they are not seeing in this well behaved boy that needs to be corrected.

Not in the home where the father correction is the final.Both are responsible for bringing them to the world.So the ideas of one man may not be sufficient to handle a child until they are both two that parental role can be firm,strong and sound. Don't separate your children from one another. Treat them equally. What is good for the geese is good for the gander.Always justify anything you are doing for them because they won't forget if it was an unfair dealing.They are watching you and following what you are doing.

Finally it pays to act,love and care for your child always because the blessing in them is sweet and lovely.

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Note:In God that I write.....Thank you Lord

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