Man is the head of the family and nothing can change the fact that he will be the one taking most of the house responsibilities. A concern and serious father for that matter. The responsibility is much on him as a man. So as a woman solely married. Don't make him think that how I wish I never married this woman. No support,no advice and no input. Her role is just to collect the money for food and take care of the children. And to give birth to children.Women should not overburden their husband with responsiblity because of the title he has gotten.

God forbid if he dies you will work twice as you are doing and you will realise his role on the family even if it's little. I am not saying he should not be committed to the family but women can assist the man if he is financially incapacitated.There is no place in the bible that says women should not support their husbands.

Which was one of the main reason why some women got married. He needs to act as a father and a role model. He knew all those things before getting married. I won't support neither contribute. But if I do I will collect more from him. They need to prove to us as a women that they are strong and reliable.

The responsibilities of the house are two way thing, the man do more but the woman use what was given to take care of the house. But it shouldn't be left to the woman all alone. The man should grow up to the extent of understanding his children and satisfy the wife he has vowed to be with. Also,the wife should make the house attractive and enjoyable. The two has become one.

If there is any disagreement  whatsoever they should quickly adjust and come together. Disagreement is bound to happen in marriage. It will eventually bring them closer if they have ironed out those issues amicably.That's what can last and make the marriage stand the test of time.

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Note:In God that I write.....Thank you Lord

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